Stunning truth is, my husband didn’t want kids when we first met. I was a single mother when we started dating, and when the subject would come up about wanting children, he always said he didn’t have a huge urge to have children. He enjoyed spending time with my daughter and as our relationship grew, so did his relationship with her, but he remained convinced that having solely my daughter as our only child would be perfectly fine with him.
I kept trying to explain to him the wonders of being a parent. The wonders of watching a child grow from a tiny newborn into a toddler, into a child, and so on. He was not convinced. He was fine with the status quo.
He had no desire for children.
Yet, I did. After marrying my husband, I desired to fill our home with as many children as the good Lord would bless us with. Thankfully, my husband decided to venture out with me and considered the possibility of one more child. I was ecstatic to learn that I was pregnant with a baby boy.
Once pregnant, I told my oldest daughter that we were thinking about having a baby. To my surprise, she was less than thrilled. She was 11 at the time and perfectly happy being the only child. I tried to convince her with questions such as, “wouldn’t it be exciting to have a sibling around to hang out with?” – NO. “Your mom and stepdad won’t be young forever, don’t you want a sibling closer to your age to visit when you are older?” –NO. I finally had to tell her that it wasn’t her choice and we were just preparing her for the fact that a baby was indeed coming, whether she liked it or not. But I was worried.
Will the baby be accepted?
Will the baby be loved?
Isn’t it amazing how God seems to use the most unlikely people to get the job done? There’s countless examples of this in the Bible. There are lots of lists like the one below floating around the internet:
These are powerful reminders of the truth. That God loves EACH of us. He has a plan for each one of us. No matter who you are, you have a part to play in this world. Which is why we should never look down on anyone. This is why God tells us to love our enemies. Because you know who else loves our enemies? God.
So as I ponder the meaning of Christmas, it makes perfect sense to me that God would send His son wrapped as a vulnerable baby in the lowliest place imaginable to be born. Because even those looked down on in the world as the lowest, are still valuable in His eyes.
Our God sent His son to save everyone. He loves each of us. He heals the sick and wounded. He resurrects the dead and breathes life into them. He is the God of impossible. He is the God of restoration. He is the God of redemption.
Such a beautiful family and powerful testimony! So many children are in foster homes praying for a family to love them. May God bless your family and loving hearts! Awesome affirmation! Thank you for this writing and pics! Have you thought about getting your family story published in some magazines? I appreciate you and your family do much!
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Thank you for your kind comments, Rick. I agree, no child should be without the fundamental need of a family…
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Haaaa haaa, This means you are ‘Blessed’ and highly ‘Favoured’ . 🙂 🙂
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Blessed and highly favored sounds like a good thing to me?! 😉 thanks for reading, Vikas!!! 🙂
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I love you guys and your faithfulness to God❤️❤️❤️❤️
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We love your family and your family’s obedience to God!!! Thankful we have each other to text us through the rough patches!!! 😍😍😍
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That’s crazy! What a neat story of how God changes our desires. I love it!!
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Thanks for reading and commenting, Alyssa. God is pretty amazing!!! 🙂
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ya..u got great family.>>praise GOD..amen
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Thanks for stopping by Gadolelohai!!! Praise God indeed!!!! ☺️☺️
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An amazing story, to be sure! Yes, God has a plan and a place for all people who follow Him. Sometimes our will fits in with His will for us. Sometimes it doesn’t. You were fortunate to have things work out in the way you wanted it because God allowed you to have the wonderful family you wanted. Good reminders and a very nice message…
Steve
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Thanks for reading and commenting, Steve. We are very fortunate – I agree!!! 🙂
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You are welcome. And I thank you for reading my blog as well…
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Absolutely! I need to catch up!! 😜
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Oh…me too! I’m very far behind on answering my replies and comments…
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Absolutely! I need to catch up!!!
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What an amazing story. I didn’t not want kids, but I didn’t mind an existence care free, considering I was forced to raise my brothers through my entire youth I just wanted my me time. Ofcourse anyone who has read my personal blog knows I was the furthest from happy when I found out I was pregnant with my oldest. Now of course as all parenting stories go, i can’t imagine a life that existed without them. 🙂
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Of course — I can’t imagine life without my kiddos, as well. It’s pretty amazing how feelings can change in time! I think I’m following your personal blog…??? can you drop the link? 😉
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https://stepparentsanctuary.wordpress.com
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YES! Okay, I am following that one! now to find the time to read all the blogs I want to read…GAH! How about we add a few more hours to our days in 2017? I like that as a resolution? LOL!
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haha true true 😉
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This is a beautiful post. How a person wishes no child and then is gifted by eight! God truly blesses every time one becomes a parent.
Your family picture is so cute.❤
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Thank you Letter to Life! I am happy this post touched your heart. It is amazing how God can turn our hearts 180 degrees!!! Thanks for stopping by! 🙂
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Your generosity of spirit reads like a warn embrace…you are a gifted writer and encourager…you are a light…thanks for sharing 🙂
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Awww, thanks TrulyUnplugged! I appreciate your kind comments and encouragement! Yes –we should all be the light!!! 🙂
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You’re welcome 🙂
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I love you all.
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Awwwwwww….love to you as well!!!! 😍😍😍😍
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I was talking to my husband now it’s so easy to learn new things. .new stories….. I am super proud to have you all in my life!
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Isn’t the blogosphere awesome!?!?
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That was a really good article!
The love of God is very evident in you.
P.S. I also enjoyed reading that picture about God using imperfect people, you know…Moses, David, Timothy, etc.
Will you allow me to save and use that picture of God’s imperfect ambassadors please? That was really encouraging to read.
And thank you for sharing God’s love to people.
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I’m glad you enjoyed it, Lee! And I agree, it’s absolutely a great picture of how God uses imperfect people. I found it all over on Pinterest and I couldn’t find the rightful owner…. Thanks for stopping by and reading! 🙂
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